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Teach Your People to Pray—By Praying Well

Rich Penix·August 24, 2026
Teach Your People to Pray—By Praying Well

Public prayer is one of the most visible and formative elements of corporate worship. And yet, it is often one of the least intentionally developed.

Most pastors would affirm that prayer is central to the life of the church. Jesus calls His Father’s house “a house of prayer.” The early church devoted themselves to prayer. Paul urges that prayers be made for all people. And yet, in many churches, public prayer can feel more like a transition than a pastoral act.

But when you pray in the gathered assembly, you are not merely speaking to God, you are teaching your people how to speak to God.

Public Prayer as Discipleship

Prayer is directed to the Lord, but God uses public prayer to shape the prayer lives of His people. Through tone, content, and theology, pastors model what a healthy prayer life looks like.

In this sense, public prayer provides scaffolding. Your words help structure the silent prayers of the congregation—guiding what they care about, how they express it, and how they join their internal “amen” to what is said.

This means public prayer is not incidental. It is formative. It is pastoral work.

Preparing to Pray (Yes, Preparing)

Many pastors default to extemporaneous prayer—and there is certainly a place for that. But if we prepare carefully to preach, why would we not prepare to pray?

Begin by asking: What kind of prayer is this?
Adoration? Confession? Thanksgiving? Intercession? Illumination?

Clarity of purpose leads to clarity of content.

From there, consider your preparation style:

  • Extemporaneous: flexible, but can lack focus

  • Fully written: precise, but sometimes stiff

  • Bullet points: structured yet natural

For many, a simple outline provides the best balance, guarding against rambling while preserving sincerity.

Also consider where your prayer sits in the service. A prayer following confession will sound different than a prayer before the preaching of the Word. Even your introduction matters. A brief, thoughtful invitation can draw the congregation in, while a casual, thoughtless transition can disengage them.

And don’t overlook length. Aim for substance without losing clarity or attention.

If public prayer is pastoral work, it deserves pastoral intentionality.

Common Pitfalls to Avoid

Many of us fall into habits that weaken public prayer. A few are especially common:

Overly casual
We are addressing the holy, sovereign God. While we approach Him as Father, our tone should reflect reverence.

Overly “spiritual” tone
Adopting an unnatural voice or archaic language can distract. Pray in your own voice, clearly and sincerely.

Overly repetitious
Filler phrases creep in easily, especially when nervous. Preparation helps eliminate them.

Overly eloquent
If your prayer sounds like a performance, it may draw attention to you rather than to God. Aim for clarity over polish.

Overly emotional
Emotion has a place, but it should match the content. Consistent intensity can feel performative rather than pastoral.

Overly sensitive to feedback
Receive feedback humbly. If your prayers are distracting or unbalanced in some way, heed the counsel of your fellow elders. Assure them that you welcome such input and consider it essential to the overall health of the assembly.

What Should We Pray For?

Scripture gives clear direction. Pray for civil authorities, the salvation of the lost, and the advance of the gospel. But don’t stop there.

One of the most powerful ways to shape your church is through specificity.

Consider praying for members by name (wisely and appropriately). Acknowledge major life events like births, illnesses, losses. Lift up ministries, leaders, and upcoming opportunities. This teaches your people how to care for one another and cultivates a culture of shared burden-bearing. 

Public prayer is also an opportunity to reinforce the Bible’s vision for the Christian life.

Consistently pray that your people would:

  • Love God’s Word

  • Pursue unity

  • Grow in evangelistic boldness

  • Live faithfully at home and work

  • Build deep, honest relationships

  • See themselves as contributors, not consumers

These prayers do more than express desire. They cultivate it.

Week by week, you are forming instincts. You are helping your people see what matters in the kingdom of God, signaling that in everything we aim to accomplish for the Lord, our eyes are fixed on Him.

A Final Encouragement

Pastor, your public prayers matter more than you think.

They teach theology.
They model devotion.
They shape the instincts of your people.
They form a culture of dependence on God.

So take time to prepare. Pray with clarity. Avoid distraction. Aim for substance over style.

And above all, remember: you are not performing for your people. Instead, you are leading them to grow in one of the distinct privileges provided to gospel people: prayer.

So with boldness, lead them to the throne of grace.

About the Author

Rich Penix

Rich Penix

Rich Penix is a pastor at Eden Baptist Church in Minneapolis, MN. He and his wife, Rachel, have four children. He holds degrees in music and theology.

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